I couldn't even imagine doing that I went out for an hour actually with friends and I felt horrible and out of place. I repeatedly said "yall need to take me home after this I'm a mother this feels wrong" and all we did was get my sisters nosed pierced and go to Walmart lol she's 8 months and that was the first time I left her for "fun" purpose.

@jonathensmom, I don't think most of the people above me understood my point.

@jonathensmom, especially when you can't even pay your own bills. That shits dead.

@jonathensmom, that's what I'm saying. I mean if you wanna go for some drinks once in a blue moon then be my guest, but if you on the scene almost EVERY weekend then you need to grow tf up 😴

Yeah she has a lot of growing up to do. @butterfli_luv,

moms deserve breaks and I always say whatever they do with their break is their business as long as their children are taken care of and they aren't endangering them who cares honestly I had my first at 15 and my mom still let me go out like every two weeks and enjoy myself because I did what I had to do the rest of the time on my own , now there's a problem if the kids are neglected and the parents are out every single night of the week.

I was a young mom when my son was born. I went out all the time while pregnant (didn't drink or smoke) but just hung out with friends and enjoyed the time I was going out. Now I don't ever go out. I went out last weekend cuz I had s job in in the morning and my mom just kept him and god I was lame. Still didn't drink or anything but it was fun to get out and be around other adults. They are all older than me but none have a family so don't know that you can't always go out like they can.

@butterfli_luv, but this girl don't even have a job and her dad and boyfriend parents are having to pay half of the bills

Yeah I don't like to drink around my son I don't feel right. I'm not judging parents that do responsibly drink though. I used to smoke before I got pregnant cigarettes too but have quit. Almost 2 years smoke free this Feb. 😬😬 the worst is when u see people smoking in the car with children

I'm not a young mom, I havent been out with me and JUST my husband since I was 9 months pregnant 😭

@katienkaden,

I'm a young mom too and the only time I go out is every other weekend on a movie or dinner date. I never drink now that I have a baby. Now it would be ok if it was like once in a blue moon but this one specific girl drinks almost every weekend and posts about it all over facebook and smokes weed in the house while her child is there ☹️

I am a young mom but I do not go out at all lol.. I know a few young moms that post statuses like "getting drunk tonight" and shit and it bugs me too