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Bonnie
Bonnie
Мама сына (1 год)

Gianni's dad comes home in such a shit attitude 😔. I understand he works hard but it really pisses me off when he treats…

Gianni's dad comes home in such a shit attitude 😔. I understand he works hard but it really pisses me off when he treats me like I've done something wrong. Mumbling under his breath, refusing to talk or hang out with me. Like relax man. I may be a SAHM but this man pays ZERO of my bills. I pay my car insurance, my son and I have insurance because of me, I buy our groceries 3/4 times, credit cards, our electricity and cell phones. I'm college educated (all my loans have been paid) and he's not. I have 30k in a savings account. Like m'fr I know you ain't treating me like I'm the issue. He chose the work he does and gets a FREE 3 bedroom apartment because of it. Also he will spend all night talking to his employee. Just bullshitting for hours. Like damn spend some time with your family.

Sorry I'm in a bad mood lol

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sweetnicole

Brittney

Мама троих детей

Girl he acting like you need him! I would have put him in his place real quick!

hernandez

jessica

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yes i understand i need to vent as well

bonniesue

Bonnie

Мама сына (1 год)

@hernandez, I know girl. Just a moment of annoyance. I think I just downloaded WhatsApp on my new phone.

bonniesue

Bonnie

Мама сына (1 год)

@raquely, I'm not asking him to pay anything for me. I'm sorry if I didn't explain that well. All I mean is I'm not just taking his money. Nor am I the reason he works the job he does lol. Most of the time he's nice. But I hate the days he comes home like a brat

hernandez

jessica

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sorry u have to go threw this

hernandez

jessica

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Bonnie u can always txt me and take every thing out ma u have my number

bonniesue

Bonnie

Мама сына (1 год)

@beebaby, I don't know what his issue is. He's stressed from work. But everybody works. Like grow up.

bonniesue

Bonnie

Мама сына (1 год)

I also work from home occasionally. I'm no where near needy or relying on him. Yet he blames me for taking a management position. Boy please

bonniesue

Bonnie

Мама сына (1 год)

@beebaby, yes it does. Like I don't add any stress. I handle my own bills and needs. All of which is from years of working 12 hours shift 7 days a week and buying myself nothing just saving. I bring a lot to the table. I don't need any attitude.

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