After 3 months of having horrible back pain I recently decided to go to the chiropractor and found…

After 3 months of having horrible back pain I recently decided to go to the chiropractor and found out my back is not straight like it's suppose to be and my nerves from getting 4 epidurals at once are damaged and ain't healing like there suppose to be. So my housework has been getting a little sloppy lately and my husbands been noticing for awhile now. So he has decided to hire someone to help clean our house once a week. (My husbands always working so he can't help much) Ever since people have found out about us hiring a maid once a week, I've been called lazy and I should just suck it up. Which I've sucked it up for the longest time but now it's starting to get worst. Some days I can't even get out of bed when my sons crying for me in the morning. (And I feel really bad when it takes me awhile to get to him, I just feel like a horrible mom at that point) is it really that bad if I hire someone to help me out until my back starts getting better? 😔