I'm so frustrated, I've been trying to get my 2 year old take a nap since 11ish (no I'm not forcing…

I'm so frustrated, I've been trying to get my 2 year old take a nap since 11ish (no I'm not forcing an early nap on him for no reason or because I'm sick of him) he's obviously sleepy cause he wakes up super early so this is his nap time, but he's pushing it since its almost 2. My MIL keeps making comments about how he doesn't fight his sleep when she does it or saying to me "you still haven't got him sleep yet?" etc. Well when you put your 2 month old to sleep and your 2 year old wants to scream cause he doesn't wanna nap and wakes your 2 month old up you gotta calm him down so you have to put the 2 year old down OR when you try to rock a 2 year old in one arm and your 2 month old in the other but your 2 year old kicks and flails hitting the 2 month old you put the 2 year old down. So I'm letting my 2 year old run around the room with the baby gate up while I put my 2 month old to sleep. So if Silas doesn't take a nap all day that's fine I'm not gonna force it some days he naps, some days he doesn't. But the comments are unnecessary! Of course putting JUST 1 baby down is easy but when you have more than one its not so easy all the time. Shoot, she should try it 😡😡😒😒😒😒😒