After months of fighting he went to work and when he came home it was only to get his things for his new apartment he impulsively bought. wonderful. I dont know if I should be happy because this is what I wanted, relieved because my kids are now safe... or freaking out because now I'm a single mother of an almost 3 year old, a soon to be new born, and I have Christmas around the corner plus bills, and I'm not working right now.... ugh.