welp. I'm single. boyfriend comes and playfully slaps me and I hit him back a lot of times. he kicks me with his shoes on TWICE. I have like a rug burn from his show and the second time he kicked me in my boob. so I took all of his shit out of the closet and told him to get out. he said he's leaving tomorrow.
am I wrong for this? I did not once kick him. and he kicked me with his shoes on which are hard. and really thick. where he kicked me, it's slowly turning purple. my boob just hurts really badly. and this isn't the first time he kicked me in my boob and I started crying and he said I was faking it. But the one time I accidentally kick him in the balls he gets mad at me and won't talk. I need advice. ASAP.
also, it's not like he spends time with me anyway. he's always on the game and smoking weed and when I want to spend time with him he gets mad and tells me no. when I try to talk about it with him he's always like "whatever Mya"
Be happy yall dont have a baby together. Disaster waiting to happen.
@tryingforababy, good morning luv , hope u have a good day
we share a kitten together and that's it. no kids. we were trying but our relationship has been going down the drain the past month and a half. if he really leaves tomorrow, I get to keep the car because 1 I bought him and 2 my name is on his vet papers. but I don't know if I'll be able to keep him. it'll only remind me of him. @rocky792
@tryingforababy, I know it's hard especially when you love him so much and sharing a child or children make it even harder... sometimes you can't hang on especially if u feel he doesn't want to try, you'll only hurt urself... if he leaves you can't stop him, but maybe he'll realize wat he's losing and get his shit together, but if not that's ur blessing let God work! it sounds really petty and easy to fix but only you know how much you can deal with... I'm all about love and family I truly hope it's worth fixing.. but if not please be happy.... life experiences gurl
he doesn't want to so how am I suppose to? he's the love of my life and all I can do is watch him walk away... @rocky792
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but then tells me halfway through the week he can't take him Friday until Saturday due to taking up an optional shift at work, can I legally tell him he either takes him Friday at his ordered time or doesn't get him? He's constantly cancelling whole weekends or taking our son a quarter of his ordered time. He also isn't following the meets on the order. Almost every Sunday he has him...
Idk if this is a little to harsh but my stepson is 2 and 7 months now the time outs are not working so I stepped it up a little and decided to take all toys away and tv away for whatever he has left of the day till bed time. Gets it taken for hitting us or throwing toys or kicking... He kicked me right in the mouth last night so he didn't get his toys till after nap and no cartoons and thats around 4pm is this to much??
Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls ...
Leave his ass he's a pos @tryingforababy