Ya it's a foster adoptive class. And they have classes of what to expect. What you need to have and how your house should be

ok they teach classes I didn't know that. I will look into it thank you so much for your advice@jessyleigh

We are just starting our process. A lot of classes. My whole family has fostered. And we enjoyed it. I looked up our local foster company and on there it had an application and I filled it out. They have an informative session then three classes and then home studies and then when you pass them all you get on a list of fosters and my cousin just finished her classes a week ago and she already has a foster kid. Around here in Iowa they are much needed. But I never heard of a foster parent waiting to long to foster. Adoptive is different story. Sometimes it can be as fast as 6 months after all the paper work and sometimes up to a few years depending where you go. When you foster you can put restrictions like if you don't wants a certain age. If you don't want them to have problems like a disability or anger problems they will out that in the notes and when they call you can ask all the questions you want and if it doesn't seem like a good fit say no

@jessyleigh,

Yea he isn't seeing it my way. he doesn't have to go through it but I would love to adopt. how is it fostering you have any advice on how to go about it ?

No!!! A lot of people don't have a great pregnancy and don't want to do it again. I had an easy pregnancy but hated it 🙄 and we are trying and also going through the process of fostering and in hopes to adopt later in life. :) my husband wanted three of his own but finally showed him what it's like and he thought our hearts are big enough let's do it!