sooo...when I went to the ER the other day I was told I have a cyst on my left ovary and am…
sooo...when I went to the ER the other day I was told I have a cyst on my left ovary and am hemorrhaging where the egg implanted in my uterus. My new job is taking care of infants and toddlers. it happened the day after I started my job. the ER told me that if I aggravate the hemmraging I could lose my baby and am afraid that my job might do it..
What do you think I should do?
Stay or find something more simple?
it's my first pregnancy and I want more than anything to have this baby healthy..
my bf is also not working but I'm not worried about that. he is very handy and picks up side jobs but..
HELP
Give me your opinions pleaseee!!
Thank you!
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
Did the doctors say that your job might be risking it?
Courtney·
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Nothing is worth threatening the life of your baby
Kaycie Deckman·
@keepingupwithhj they told me that the job could have caused it from me going up and down lifting kids all day long and it could cause the hemmraging to bleed causing baby to not be okay. I just got the job though monday, it happened Tuesday morning but it scares the hell out of me knowing that it could make me lose my little bumble bee inside of me
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
Oh gosh. Yeah, I definitely wouldn't risk it.
Kaycie Deckman·
@courtt that's exactly how I feel but there's no money coming in and I think my bf would get upset if I quit but it's like ughh I don't want anything bad to come because I want to make everyone else happy but myself...I've always been that kind of person..
Courtney·
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Well it's his time to step up and get a good income job so you don't risk your child's life. And if that is to much to ask of him then he won't stick around long after the baby's born.
Kaycie Deckman·
@jadasmommy see that's the thing. I told her everything that was going on and the next thing she says is when can you come in....like wtffff
Kaycie Deckman·
@courtt veryy truee. he is a great guy though, and I'm sure he'd be upset but let it pass. Just don't want arguments and stress right now at all whatsoever that's what's making it a little hard. because I told him it could hurt me in the long run and also is a hazardous job because of live viruses in the school and stuff but he says, at least it's income and I know it is but I just wanna be safe and be okay. And of course like I said..I always put everyone first before me...
Kaycie Deckman·
@jadasmommy I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks that!
Courtney·
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Well you need to put the well being of that baby before anyone. Including him. Let him get a job and if he seems to still make excuses then he doesn't care.
Kaycie Deckman·
@courtt thank you! and thank you all for the input, it definitely helps when there's people who understand you!!
Kaycie Deckman·
@beebaby thanks, I appreciate the input!