Ok question already mommies (lol)....did u look at any labor and delivery videos with ur first? If u…

I did almost every night. It got me excited, nothing negative..

@mariahje, really?? Pls tell me how u got excited. I need to kno how to direct my emotions that way.

i did... i have a lot of anxiety so it did scare me to pieces ... but everyday that came closer to holding my baby girl my nervousness turned into excitement...

I did! It was educational and gave me a realistic perspective to judge the different ways to do things:)

I just never feared birth. I don't know why. I guess just positive thinking. Tell yourself it will be great and it will be.

@jennimarie417, i feel like um in that boat. I jus want to be ok with it. @princessmama i kno i need to do it but the other side is like "dont watch anything...just do it. @mariahje Honeeey lol i will work on that. Thanks ladies I really appreciate the feedback.

Bad or good it's better to watch something and be somewhat prepared, it's scary if you go in blinde, love. Plus regardless of wanting to society has shown you bad/negative things about birth that you've seen, (tv shows, movies, stories from mothers) its best to make your own opinions with actual knowledge of viewing.

@princessmama, good points!