One of my oldest friends has asked me more than once if my son was an "accident". Gianni was…

I was rapped, and I still do NOT consider my son an accident. he saved me. everything happens for a reason. this baby I am currently pregnant with was planned. I will not love my son any less though for what happened and I will not love this baby anymore or less than my son bc she/he was planned.

🙄 I got that like crazy. I also got that "how did you get pregnant if your husband was gone with the military for 6 months?" Uhhh he was in tech school in Texas... not deployed over seas. I went down and spent every other weekend in a hotel room with him. What do you think we were doing?! 😅

@hiswifetheirmama, why would it even matter if they weren't? I never understood that. So many people ask if my older siblings are just my half siblings (they're 10 & 8 years older than me). It's rude. We are full siblings. Even if we weren't I just called them my brother and sister, so why try to stir the pot or belittle my family?

@allyk.xmommy, you're incredibly strong. And your children are lucky to have you! I think regardless of how a child is conceived, the fact we continued to carry them, birth them and love them should be enough. I don't know why people have to say such horrible things about innocent children.

@christimary0, lol. Some times I feel like you gotta tell people about the birds and the bees. Nosey people!

exactly! ppl are crazy