When you lose more of your mucus plug, that means your cervix is softening more correct??
Not really, you can lose it and regrow it, you can be 3+ cm dilated and still have it, or you can be not dilated any and have already lost it.
i haven't lost mine yet. but I know my Sister lost hers and she wasn't dilated or thinning till a day or two after
Yeah, I lost it at like 30weeks then it came back, last Tuesday I was dilated at a 2 already, I just want her here already 😢