@kp_111516, I was the same way. I stopped bleeding 1 week pp. I felt like I could handle it and felt healed down there. I even had 2nd degree tearing with my son and felt fine 4 weeks after. I just recommend a condom or something because your body is very fertile right now. also lube lol. it will hurt some your first time after a baby, at least it did for me. it felt like I was super tight down there. but my hubbs went slow and was patient and all is well :) It's obviously up to you, it's your body. if you don't feel comfortable yet then just wait another 2 weeks, if you're confident about how well you've healed then go for it! good luck mama