Wow I'm so I'm shock. I'm also apart of a Facebook group for teen and young moms. usually they are…

I'm sorry this happened to you! I also feel like moms should be able to pick what they believe is best to do in situations like that.

I'm sorry you had to go through that 🙁 a lot of doctors recommend babies boys get circumcised cause of the benefits I mean if you were attacking your baby I don't think they recommend it you know? I use to think I wanted to circumcised my son but seemingly since my hubby is actually not circumcised and he been fine his whole life I decided to not do it like you said it's up to the mom and I feel like she was way out of line saying your attacking the baby like u mentioned the procedure wouldn't even be offered if the doctors didn't find it safe and honestly I don't think any mom like okay I'm gonna circumcised my son cause I want him to be in pain like no your doing what you think is right and safe for him so shame on her for making all the moms feel bad I think every mom and every baby boy are different and it's the moms choice I honestly think it really doesn't matter I think regardless both babies circumcised or not do fine maybe you need a little more precautions with non circumcised I'm not sure but my husband says theirs really no difference he thinks so it's all up to choice I guess

Agreed! Well put! @jessgnov

@alexanbrya, I never knew mom shaming was a thing till I became pregnant I thought it was all lies and drama but it's very real sadly

I wish it was. I get a lot of shame since I'm young but I will prove everyone wrong! @jessgnov

That's why I don't like the groups on Facebook I'm in a multiples group and the moms are so rude sometimes.

thanks @alexanbrya. and yes @jessgnov I totally agree. my husband is cut so it was just a decision we made ya know. we did some research and did what we decided is right. I don't see anything wrong with someone or a baby that's uncircumcised. you're right in the end there really isn't much difference. I was so upset but I'm happy she got kicked out. she was telling at new moms and telling them they were bad moms and mutilators. you could tell they were upset. it was so out of line

@tripletroublemom, yeah I was hesitant about joining any. this one seemed ok and I've been in it over a month and this is the first time I saw hardcore mom bashing. it was so saddening

she was so out of line! how could she be so mean like some moms think they know it all but like I mentioned everyone is different and so are their kids it's not a one size fits all system per say but glad she got kicked out!

I had joined a regular mom group and when I posted about having HELLP with my triplets they bashed me talking about that's what I get for having a procedure done to have a baby. My pregnancy was natural and they made me feel like shit so I left the group and reported it to fb.

@tripletroublemom, oh wow that's terrible :( I'm so sorry. some women are so catty and terrible. we should be supportive of one another not tearing each other down :(

@mrs.n2014, it's a Facebook group that bashes people that are circumcised it bashes parents that circumcise their children. you can send in screen shots of convos with parents and they will reach out or tag you and bash you for what you did saying you mutilated your child, that you're a sick person, that you should be ashamed and so on. they're horrible bullies.

@rosiel49 exactly

@mrs.n2014, they're super against it and believe circumcision is a form of mutilation. they also have a lot of wrong information like of you have it dome to your son then he'll have health problems for the rest of his life or never have feeling in his penise again. they think it should be a choice they make when they're older. it's their opinion and I'm not bashing it but u don't agree with it either.

I wish they gave me the same curtisy

@clothdiapermomma and you have every right to do so, but it's my child and my culture. besides your example I have yet to ever hear a man complain about being cut. not only from my culture but outside of it. I'm not gonna be shamed for what I consider healthier and a part of our life style. get what I'm saying? I'd never sit here and shame you for doing what your doing. you're within your rights and are completely right because you think it's right.

@clothdiapermomma and that's totally your perspective which I 100%respect. my point of this post really was about being respectful to other moms. you can disagree and be respectful as the same time ya know. my husband is cut as well (isn't Jewish) and he's never complained. I've even asked if it bothered him. so together we made the decision. that's just us. I know men that got circumcised later in life too. a few of my husbands friends at the age of 28-30 went and got it done. why? I have no clue but that's what they wanted. so like I respect 100%how you see it and respect you protesting it and everything, I just expect the same curtsy. at the end of the day we're all moms. whether you're anti vaccinations, anti circumcision, whatever it is. we all believe in what we believe and there isn't anything wrong with it, as long as we're respectful to one another. I hope I'm sorta getting my main point across lol

@clothdiapermomma we're Italian and French. our doctor is from the UK. he told us in all honesty it made no difference. so we went based on that. it was just our decision ya know

@clothdiapermomma yes exactly! and I understand that totally