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I had my husband put our daughter to bed around 6:30pm while I did my homework. I thought since he…

I had my husband put our daughter to bed around 6:30pm while I did my homework. I thought since he doesn't have work because of the holiday he could help out. He continuously asked me to help him. All he had to do was put a new sheet on our daughter's bed, put her in her pj's, make a bottle, brush her teeth, read her some books, give her a little cuddling, then lay her down for the night. He was so flustered and he thought he couldn't do it all on his own. I told him "I do this every night and so much more, while your at work. You can do it." He then looked at me and said "but I'm not a super mom like you. I can't multitask and I can't do things like you do. Your so much better at all of this." I just looked at him and smiled and told him he could do it and to do start with her sheets, then pj's bottle, teeth, book/cuddles then bed time. I think he realized at that moment that my job as a stay at home mom/wife is much harder than he realizes. I feel as though he really appreciates everything I do for our family. I may not help with income but I have a job that's so much harder than most paying job out there. I am a stay at home mom and my job never ends. I work through the night, the weekends, on sick days and holidays. I am the cook, the maid, the nurse, the advisor, the comforter, the wife, the mother, the full time college student and the alarm clock. I don't get vacation days but I wouldn't want it any other way.

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Melinda Parker

Мама четверых детей

I must say I disagree with the last part! Actually I believe it's harder to deal customers, then my own kids. Also I never got to deploy with our unit, but i am home with the kids while he deploys. I get to be here watch them grow, but he can't if he ever gets deployed. Like work too. We are here watch there first everything, but when working you miss a lot.

Its so much easier being home with my kids, then dealing with customers. Also it's easier then being in supply for the military, because my kids listen better than most soldiers. Our instincts may be hard, because being a mom is not a job to me. But it maybe hard at times, and I know I have four kids five and under. I rather be with them, then deal with outside world. My husband job is hard too. Lol

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