For a little over half a year now my relationship with my SO has been pretty bad and so much…

For a little over half a year now my relationship with my SO has been pretty bad and so much tension. He had began to emotionally neglect me and I've made hundreds of attempts to try to reconnect and get on a better page and it's like we're just 2 people who are raising our little girl and expecting a son within a few weeks. My trouble is that he wasn't set on naming our son (mutually) and then decided to get a dog that I said I did NOT want due to allergens,excessive hair having to be cleaned (which I honestly don't like), constant barking, biting at our daughter,and the stench is so bad that my house doesn't even smell decent anymore(which he has been given baths) First off I love all animals. but I don't feel like it was smart or appropriate to get one with another child on the way and with me having to bust my ass to clean after yet another being. I've asked him numerous of times could we wait at least half a year after our son to get a pet but he's been ignoring me for the past few days since I've brought up these problems. my daughter and I shouldn't have to go without his attention or love. We don't even have dinner together anymore, I'm not even excited to spend holidays with him! - Sorry for the rant but I have this deep hurt