Starting to feel like telling everyone on Christmas is selfish. I didn't want to say before now bc my sister is preg and…

Don't you think your family can be happy for you and your sister? They thought they were getting one and now they get two amazing babies! That sounds like a good deal to me! :)

@mommy1991, they didn't want me to get pregnant. I've hinted a couple of times all with negative reactions

my mom always had negative reaction on me getting pregnant and when i told her she was so happy.. and she is so in love with my son...

@onlyhuman, I'm 25 and when I was telling my mom I was terrified. I made her tell my dad cause there was no way I was gonna do it. I went to her place for dinner and it was just me and her. I broke out in tears cause I thought she was goi g to be so dissapointed and she was. But she still loved me and helped me and basicly told me that even though tbis isn't what she would have chosen for me at this time in my life she's going to support me and help me anyways. I'm not married but I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We now live with her while we save up for a house and she loves her grand daughter to bits. your family will love you regardless. Trust me.

@mommy1991, I'm 24 and have only been with my bf 2 years. My sister is 22 and with hers 6. But we planned this. We both really wanted a baby and his sister and her now fiancé are similar to us to the month, except they dated shortly in high school, are engaged and had their boy in May. I've given up trying to please everyone, now I'm just more concerned on timing. Is tell them Christmas going to ruin the holidays ? @eze.love

@onlyhuman, i'm 25 still in school and i found out i was pregnant after breaking up with my boyfriend of only a few months i guess you are doing better than me on that side lol... but honestly i belive that the holydays is a good occasion to share happyness and good thing in life with the people you love. if you are very happy about that pregnancy why not.. it should ruin it for them. i think they should be happy for you.. maybe they'll be shock but i dont belive it will ruin it for them..

@onlyhuman, All I can say that if it was me it would only make the holidays better. You know your family better than I do but what's done is done and it would serve no one any good to be upset about it. it's an adorable baby. nothing is better than that. what a great gift :)

@mommy1991, @eze.love thanks mommies 😊 fuck em. If they don't want to be grand parents it was too late anyway. Now they're just double grandparents. Not their uterus not their choice

@onlyhuman, there you go girl ☺

exactly! :) besides you're starting your own amazing family now. So if they aren't excited for you, you should still be excited for you!