I'm tired of arguing. And my first reaction is to leave but he won't let me. And he calls it coming…

I'm tired of arguing. And my first reaction is to leave but he won't let me. And he calls it coming to an understanding but to me we're arguing and going in circles.I feel like he doesn't understand that when we argue wether we talk about it or not it builds up on me and it'll get to the point where it's no coming back