Ah that's alright then. Do I have to make the house spotless @littleelf85 ? I've already cleaned but I'm worried it's not going to be good enough and will they say anything about us having a dog? He's soft as anything so I know he's not going to be an issue, just worried they might think he will be. cc
ive got one coming next month had a completely melt about it the other day was talking to mum like what if she says something about this or this as have two 9 month staffys for a start! let me know how it goes girlies xx
@littleelf85, that's alright then. I will probably run a vacuum around in the morning anyway just out of paranoia and good point, my dog is too loveable. XD @linda1995 apparently they've been trying to meet me for months but as I moved house at the beginning of October, they were just sending/visiting my old place. 😂 I also thought it was just after baby was born until I got the phone call asking me where the hell I was. XD @x-zoe-x I'm the same today! I totally forgot about it until I was trying to remember all my apt this morning (I have a hell of a lot this week) and suddenly started stressing! I'll let you know how it goes as soon as she's left haha. xx
mine came out when I was 32 weeks she just went through some leaflets etc then went, she never went to see where baby would sleep and never left my living room x
lol I didn't have his crib or anything set up then was all still in my sons cupboard in his room @nessie95 but she never asked to see anything didn't even ask if I'd bought anything yet lol xx
@mummyto1soon2be2, haha, well as I'm 38 weeks, I definitely have everything set up, but we have to put stuff in front of the door to stop the dog going in, so it's just a hassle having to move it all. -_- plus my daughter won't even be in her own room for a while. XD xx
hey I had them come to me they just come and weigh baby do Hill prick test and just check all is ok and will give you information on baby clinics near you after about 3 visits they will sign you off and then you will take baby to get weighed every other week or so not sure if same for you I love in croydon xx
@nessie95, it's been done for a few year now where I live they came out when I was pregnant with my oldest and he's 3 in January, she spent more time talking about my oldest than the new baby this time 😂 xx
Yeah that's what I mean lol both my pregnancies someone has come out to see me before baby sure I was 32 weeks last time too not sure though was a whole ago lol xx
@mummyto1soon2be2, sorry I mixed you up with the person before. 😂 I'm not with it yet. Haha. Ah I dunno then, a lot of people have said they've never had it before and a handful said they have. XD xx
It might depend on the area you live as my boys are 1 and 2 and I didn't have one come round before I had them I'm gonna ask and see if they do that round here now x
@x-zoe-x, just to let you know, all the health visitor did was ask about our situation, ie amount of rooms in the house,if we were in a happy relationship and there was no domestic abuse or anything like that, what we both did for work,if we knew about different things after the baby is born, such as breastfeeding and safe sleeping etc. Was pretty much just questioning everything and then informing us on how she would be involved in our lives for the next 5 years. xx
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Ah that's alright then. Do I have to make the house spotless @littleelf85 ? I've already cleaned but I'm worried it's not going to be good enough and will they say anything about us having a dog? He's soft as anything so I know he's not going to be an issue, just worried they might think he will be. cc
Zoe🐘👣·
ive got one coming next month had a completely melt about it the other day was talking to mum like what if she says something about this or this as have two 9 month staffys for a start! let me know how it goes girlies xx
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@littleelf85, that's alright then. I will probably run a vacuum around in the morning anyway just out of paranoia and good point, my dog is too loveable. XD @linda1995 apparently they've been trying to meet me for months but as I moved house at the beginning of October, they were just sending/visiting my old place. 😂 I also thought it was just after baby was born until I got the phone call asking me where the hell I was. XD @x-zoe-x I'm the same today! I totally forgot about it until I was trying to remember all my apt this morning (I have a hell of a lot this week) and suddenly started stressing! I'll let you know how it goes as soon as she's left haha. xx
Zoe🐘👣·
ah nuts! dont worry im sure itll be fine!:) but yeh let me know, thank you @nessie95 xx
sarah·
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mine came out when I was 32 weeks she just went through some leaflets etc then went, she never went to see where baby would sleep and never left my living room x
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@mummyto1soon2be2, thank you, hopefully that's all she does as I cba with her checking upon everything XD xx
sarah·
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lol I didn't have his crib or anything set up then was all still in my sons cupboard in his room @nessie95 but she never asked to see anything didn't even ask if I'd bought anything yet lol xx
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@mummyto1soon2be2, haha, well as I'm 38 weeks, I definitely have everything set up, but we have to put stuff in front of the door to stop the dog going in, so it's just a hassle having to move it all. -_- plus my daughter won't even be in her own room for a while. XD xx
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hey I had them come to me they just come and weigh baby do Hill prick test and just check all is ok and will give you information on baby clinics near you after about 3 visits they will sign you off and then you will take baby to get weighed every other week or so not sure if same for you I love in croydon xx
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@mummagordon, good luck to them weighing baby as she's not born yet. XD xx
charmaine gordon·
ok looool I have never had one come to my house until after bubba was born x
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@mummagordon, I think it's a new thing if I'm honest, but as this is my first,I've no idea. XD xx
sarah·
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@nessie95, it's been done for a few year now where I live they came out when I was pregnant with my oldest and he's 3 in January, she spent more time talking about my oldest than the new baby this time 😂 xx
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@mummyto1soon2be2, no I mean coming out before the baby is born. xx
sarah·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (35 нед.)
Yeah that's what I mean lol both my pregnancies someone has come out to see me before baby sure I was 32 weeks last time too not sure though was a whole ago lol xx
vanessa·
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@mummyto1soon2be2, sorry I mixed you up with the person before. 😂 I'm not with it yet. Haha. Ah I dunno then, a lot of people have said they've never had it before and a handful said they have. XD xx
charmaine gordon·
It might depend on the area you live as my boys are 1 and 2 and I didn't have one come round before I had them I'm gonna ask and see if they do that round here now x
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@x-zoe-x, just to let you know, all the health visitor did was ask about our situation, ie amount of rooms in the house,if we were in a happy relationship and there was no domestic abuse or anything like that, what we both did for work,if we knew about different things after the baby is born, such as breastfeeding and safe sleeping etc. Was pretty much just questioning everything and then informing us on how she would be involved in our lives for the next 5 years. xx
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@nessie95, thank you for letting me.know how did you feel about the questions she was asking, did you feel judged at all, xx
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@x-zoe-x, surprisingly not and normally I do with officials like that. she was absolutely lovely, a bit excitable but otherwise fine haha. cc
Zoe🐘👣·
ah that puts my mind at ease a Bit! thank you for letting me know!:) @nessie95 xx