Not being able to get health insurance until I can go to the obgyn and get a "proof of pregnancy" test in a friggin…

Not being able to get health insurance until I can go to the obgyn and get a "proof of pregnancy" test in a friggin month is by far the STUPIDEST thing I've ever heard of especially now that I'm sick and the obgyn won't even see me told me to go to the emergency room but thank God my regular doctor used to be an obgyn so I can see her and she's gunna check my babies heart beat!!! Why won't the obgyn see me? They said I'm not an "established" patient yet?! I told them to forget it I'll find a different obgyn CAN THEY NOT UNDERSTAND THAT I WANT TO MAKE SURE MY BABY IS OKAY? Give me an ultrasound already damnit