How do I control my rage when my man doesn't meet up to my expectations?... I moved 2 hours north so…
How do I control my rage when my man doesn't meet up to my expectations?... I moved 2 hours north so we could be close to his kids... I've been busting my ass getting my work place ready down south AND trying to build a home... And he chose to go drinking for 14 hours and move very little items from storage while I worked 12 & 14 hour days... I'm paying for most of rent and bills and food & I was pissed he chose to spend money on alcohol all day... Then he was too hung over the next day to do anything with the house. I can't lift things solo... And I can't afford to pay anyone to help. I'm feeling helpless and upset because I can't start nesting. 😢
Bri·
Idk I just just unleash the beast when my Mans acting stupid lol
Lonna·
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I did that... But I don't feel any better... And he feels worse.
Mary·
You have to talk to him when he isn't hungover. His money is no longer just his money he needs to see that.
Lonna·
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Thank You for the advice @marybuchanan
Carrie·
Мама сына (8 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
That's how I've been feeling for months. He keeps spending money on alcohol and doesn't tell me. At least now at 35 weeks we're starting to get ready for the baby. However he did complain at 9pm last night when I asked him to empty the dishwasher and had attitude. So I made him sleep in the other room. Just bc you're tired doesn't mean you can disrespect me