I'm having sort if a insecure day. Most of this pregnancy my husband and I haven't had sex. I just…
I'm having sort if a insecure day. Most of this pregnancy my husband and I haven't had sex. I just can't get into it, or it makes me sick, or my body just flips out. Everyone told me it would pass because before I was pregnant, I was the one waking him up at 3 am for action even if we had just done stuff before we went to sleep. Now it's once every few weeks. I feel so guilty about it. The insecure part of me thinks he'll go somewhere else to find what he needs, but he's never ever given me a reason to think he'd ever cheat on me. Not once. I guess because I've seen it so often happen to people I know while they were pregnant, now I'm terrified. Sometimes I just kinda force myself into it so he doesn't think he needs to stray (which by the way he's never said he would. he complains often but never wants to force me).Idk what to do
Yanel·
Мама троих детей
talk to him. don't drive yourself crazy if you don't have a need to. find other ways if necessary. (help him pleasure himself, maybe orally) change your tempo... go slower or softer than normal.
the best thing to do is talk yup him and come up with solutions instead of thoughts and fears 😊😊
Aashley Attmore·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Has he cheated before ?
Aashley Attmore·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Has he cheated before ?
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)
@yanelmarie, I will. you're right it's better to talk to him. I just get super insecure
Yanel·
Мама троих детей
@rosiel49, me too... hubby got arrested and kept my entire pregnancy (No sex) and was released the day after she was born. (still no sex) he started to complain. I got really insecure but we talked and it helped. good luck
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)
@gabbymommy, not cheated physically per say. I have caught him talking to exs when we were going through a really rough patch, about what things would have been like if he stayed with her while I was pregnant with our first son and talking about our marriage, but after that it never happened again. that was about a year and a half ago. sometimes I still feel a bit.... idk insecure
Aashley Attmore·
Мама двоих (младенец)
You have nothing to worry about my husband the same way I'm not insecure just off the simple fact I know my husband ain't giving me up for nobody not an ex not a big booty nobody.
Aashley Attmore·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I didn't have sex with hubby while I was pregnant too but he ain't cheat on me
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)
@gabbymommy, @anmlopez thanks :) idk why I'm feeling so insecure but y'all are totally right