so my boyfriend well ex boyfriend has been doing drugs....i didn't know until recently and I told him if he needed to stop or I wouldn't b3 with him. well long story short he didn't stop I got mad...and well now we're not together. he is moving out with his father and I gave up everything I had to be with him. idk how to feel. what do I do? it honestly feels so shitty to be ditched while I'm pregnant. and that he choose drugs and to leave over me and our son and my little girl.
what's his drug of choice if you don't mind me asking? let him be and worry about taking care of your health throughout your pregnancy. you don't need to stress it. things will fall into place
You do you. focus on your baby. I know it's going to hurt, but the best thing you can do is just let go. You don't need that in your life, seriously. He isn't going to get clean for anybody. He has to want to get clean himself. So just give him space, time, or whichever, but don't let him be with you if he's using. Do not put up with that. trust me. I've been through a lot when it comes to drugs.
I hope he comes to his senses and gets clean!
Things happen. you focusing on your child shows how great of a mom you are and are going to be. I left my husband because of weed ( spent all our rent to get high plus extra money i had in savings and wouldnt get a job). Choosing to get high and neglecting responsibilitie is just wrong in my opinion and kids should come first when they are young.