I'm 21 weeks pregnant and I haven't told the father yet. how do I tell him? and I totally don't expect him to want to be involved in our babies life. and I won't be mad or sad if he decides not to. What do I literally say? what do I say exactly ? I can't seem to find the right words. or what sounds right?
Tell him. Its better to do it now than to wait even longer. I waited until I was almost 20 weeks to tell my family and friends (theyre all in wisconsin) because I was afraid theyd react badly. But they didnt. Your babies dad might turn around after you tell him. Or he might choose not to be in your lives. Either way its better that he knows. Who knows? Maybe he will reject yall at first but come around by the time the baby is born