Im really irritated with my fiance today. I asked him to watch our son for a little bit so I can…
Im really irritated with my fiance today. I asked him to watch our son for a little bit so I can have some alone time since im literally with my son 24/7. He says okay and I go back to our room to lie down for a little bit cuz i havent slept much the past couple of day. I shut you not, five minutes later henry starts fussing and my fiance picks him up and brings him in to me claiming that hes suddenly got a migraine and the baby is too loud. so he puts him next to me and just leaves. whats got me fucked up is that our sons cries are too loud, but the video game hes playing with the sound ALL the way up isnt too loud for his apparent migraine. Im so irritated. He never wants to deal with henry when hes fussy and hed rather play video games than be with him even when hes not fussy. Im sure im not the only one with this issue but im seriously at my wits end with this issue. Its to the point where leaving him has crossed my mind a couple of times. I still love him and i know he loves me but i cant handle him being so absent with our son. Rant over. Sorry
tiffany·
Мама четверых детей
BEEN THERE!!! so this is kind of a long story but ill try to keep it short.. I got to that point with my husband, I was drowning and he didn't want to help. so as weird as it may sound, I started a points system with him.. his hobby is in the 'bedroom' so that's what he earns points for.. 1 point for each poopy diaper change, 6 points for bathing all 3 babies, 4 points for getting them all ready for bed after bath, etc.. he reaches his goal and he can 'cash in' lol i feel like it may sound childish but its working so well for us and we r both a lot happier/less stressed.. talk to him about it but otherwise take his game system cords, hide them and tell him he's gotta earn points to play :) I dnt think (most) men will ever understand what we actually fully go thru.. I appreciate all of my husbands hard work and working overtime so I can stay home with our babies but I dnt get to 'clock out' and I needed a way for him to try and grasp that.. I wish you the best of luck bc I was literally where you are with all of the same thoughts! ❤
Raven·
Мама сына-младенца
Girl taking away his system would start a fight im not gonna deal with. Besides I really cant hide it because its our computer and I need it for my school work. That point system would never work for him because hed just blow it off and play anyways. Hes gone so far as getting up while im asleep to play on days i ask him not to play. @poozie813445