Heyhey. I'm 21, currently single... just started getting on my feet.... my boyfriend and I broke…

your okay mama.. you just feel like this because you are going through alot give it a few months when you start to see your Lil belly. you will feel better and if it comes down to it there is always adoption❤

I understand those feelings completely. I'm 20 have a complicated relationship with my baby daddy due to the fact that his dad and my mother hook up. His family doesn't know the baby is his and I'm the secret to the world around us. When I found out I was pregnant I was filled with so many emotions of excitement and fear that I won't be good enough or be able to take care of this baby the way I needed to. Now I'm 26 weeks pregnant still same situation with my baby daddy and I'm over joyed and anxious to meet my little one. Just remember that no one is forcing you to keep this baby it's totally your choice. Open adoptions are great if you still wanted to be part of your child's life

It's not selfish to admit that you're not ready for a baby! It's actually the opposite! You have options lady. You can make the best choice for both of you ✨ best wishes

Thank you everyone. Getting outside comfort from here actually helps. I'm just so nervous and scared and emotional. I know that if I do decided to have this baby.. that I would do everything I needed to do to ensure that this baby had everything it needed and especially lots of love. But on the other hand… it's going to be such a struggle. Not that babies aren't a struggle and a blessing... i need to decided soon what I wanna do..I can either have this baby and it be the best thing ever... or I could have an abortion... or I could give it up for adoption. I just don't know. No one can make this decision for me, I know that. And I know I was all over the place with that comment😳

Your comment made perfect sense. You will know what to do, just think and pray about it. Whatever you choose will be the right choice as long as it's made responsibly. Just based on your comments, you clearly care about this baby and are realistic about the circumstances. That right there speaks volumes.

I still think im not ready for a baby and he about to pop soon . its a natural feeling dont be too hard on urself okay.

@karinapaul, you'll do what's right for you! best wishes for you..

Awww you'll be ok. I found out a month after my bf and I were together that I was pregnant. I was still living at home, trying to move out, get my finances and everything together, so I wasnt ready for a baby. I'm still not sure if I'm ready. It's natural and finding out ur pregnant is scary and overwhelming. If u need to talk, feel free to measage me or probably any other girl on here, this is a very helpful and supportive group of women 😊