My mother is boasting to people about not helping me or my baby!

My mother is boasting to people about not helping me or my baby!

So I'm currently 20 years old and 30 weeks pregnant. When I got pregnant I told my family and I understand it's not the best timing but it's still a baby, something to be excited for! My dads side of the family have gotten over the fact that I'm so young having a baby and their all excited for me, even planning to travel to where I am for the birth but my moms side is completely different... Already I didn't have the best relationship with her but now I hear of her boasting to people about how she hasn't helped me at all throughout my pregnancy and that she doesn't plan to.. tbh I'm doing fine and I really don't need her help, but the fact that she's boasting? My mother recently had twins and I moved thousands of miles just to help her with them! I tried sending her pictures of the sonogram or updating her on my pregnancy but whenever I send them she leaves me on read, and now my brother (who also has not said anything good to me since finding out I'm pregnant) is practically demanding that I take a 17 hour bus ride to visit my mom because I don't want to take a plane? The same mom who boasts about not being there for me, I'm supposed to sit on a bus for a total of 34 hours to go visit her? I'm the pregnant one here! My SOs mom is already making plans to come the week before I'm due so she won't miss the birth, even after she's already getting me a crib, car seat, etc. my own dad that has never been to America is planning to come all the way from Jamaica to meet his first grandchild, and my own mother is boasting about not helping me but then expects me to do all that driving for her? Call me selfish but even if I wasn't pregnant I would never do that!!