We're home now. I cannot believe my 4 month old has pneumonia. At first I didn't know where she got…

We're home now. I cannot believe my 4 month old has pneumonia. At first I didn't know where she got it from, we never take her anywhere.

Apparently, my entire family has been sick with a cold/some type of virus. Nobody bothered to tell me, so when they asked if she could go over there over the weekend, I said of course. I had no idea. They were all KISSING HER, nobody was washing their hands, nobody was sanitizing anything...the doctor said she probably caught a cold from someone, and then it got infected.

I'm LIVID. This whole thing could have been prevented had they just used common sense and had the decency to tell me they were sick. Had I known, I would have never let her go over there. So she's not going anywhere until I know 100% that they are better, everything has been washed and sanitized, and that they will NOT be kissing her. They don't realize that she's only 4 months old and had I not trusted my instinct and brought her up to the hospital, it could have been MUCH worse.

I just don't understand.