I swear to god I just want to take myself, my baby, my dog and my cat and disappear with no trace.…

I definitely understand how you feel ! If you need to vent I'm here for you ❤️️

Thank you @lindseylove1103 I just feel very under appreciated. I work full time, take care of a household with a fiancée who doesn't drive, care for my father who has stage 4 cancer and my mother who doesn't drive and I always get told it's not enough. I'm freaking 8 months pregnant, having to work until the day I go into labor and run all around town everyday of the week doing for others. I don't get any help from siblings or friends. I guess it's just never my turn....

I know how that is I worked up until 37 weeks 5 days a week! took care of my 1 year old and got my bedroom ready by myself. my husband is in the picture but works insane hours and dealing with a lot of depression. I hope and pray we get the breaks we deserve and need !

@lindseylove1103, it's nice to know that there are women who can relate and don't think that we are just complaining for no reason. A lot of resentment builds. Just trying to stay calm for my little one. You take it easy too! Thanks for listening.

It's definitely nice relating to some one without getting judged ! All we can do is try and stay calm for our little ones! Your welcome I'm always here if you need to vent !

Sorry that you both have such stress! I wish that we moms knew each other and I could offer a helping hand or even just an ear to vent to! I am very lucky right now, but have lived through stressful times (and also as a caretaker) and I can't imagine doing that while pregnant. You are a rockstar mama! Keep your head up, you will have your little one in your arms soon!! ❤

@dabcw3814, i can so relate..At the end of the day* Do what makes you happy 1st* know u have a friend in Miami ;) even though the ny&nj; in me will never go away. life is too short to always try to please everyone.I am always helping my family.friends that are close and hear everyone's bs.I just keep my stuff to myself.many people just expect someone else to figure their shit out..*relax stress isn't good at all for you and the baby in this stage in pregnancy.In my mind i am Princess in reality I'll probably give birth at work i work full time still sats..are 12 hr days. ! in fl at a job u only get pd maternity leave if theres 15 or more employee's.doesn't apply to me there's only 4 people at the dog salon i work at..where i am the main groomer doing the work of 2-3 groomers.i love my job its my passion for 18yrs in the pet industy better than dealing with selfish people hahahah

@punchandjudie, thanks. I'm 31 years old. I feel like I've waited and waited for the "right time" to finally become a mother. I soon as I became pregnant (2 months later) my father was diagnosed. I see a therapist but I don't ever express my feelings to anyone, friends, family.... I just feel like no one cares or they believe their feelings are more important than mine so I just keep my mouth shut and do what is expected of me. Anytime I do open my mouth I get accused of being hormonal or confrontational and it basically ends up being my fault. So what's the point in the end?

@sherrynygirl, thank you. I feel very happy to know that you always take the time to check on me and comments on my posts when I am having a rough time. Trying to stay positive and count my blessings but it can be so hard. My fiancée has been more supportive of me not working or at least working part time for a period so I can be a mother and help my father more. My mother is not supportive of this. I just feel like I always will let someone down with my choices and my will lies so much in other people's opinions of what I should do. I also really love my job and don't want to leave it. I also really love my father and want to be there for him. I hate seeing him take public medical transport that takes hours at a time in the rain, cold etc. I also really love my daughter and the thought of leaving her at two months old rips me apart. We have a lot in common with our families and jobs. I definitely feel for your situation. You don't seem to have much help either.