I can't stand my baby father / boyfriends mother. For multiple reasons. For one she always seems to keep the clothing that I send over there. Toothbrushes and toothpaste also. I hate sending anything because I know it'll take forever to get it back unless I tell him to go get her shit back and then it causes an argument. He feels like it shouldn't be an issue. But it is, I don't buy her stuff for somebody else to keep it. And my mom definitely doesn't buy her stuff for his mom to keep it. My mom has clothes and any, everything she will need over there. She also makes sure to read all labels to keep away from the stuff she's allergic to. Versus his mom gives it to her. Then his mom puts her in the bath and will say "my baby" often. The first I think is totally weird. My child is 3. Why is this GROWN woman putting her in the bath with her. I rarely ever do it myself. However to them this is "normal" but I can't stand it. And she's MY baby. She came from MY body. Not yours. So stop. And stop telling her Santa, Easter Bunny etc. is not real. Your not the one who spends 100s of dollars on the holidays. Neither is your son. That's me. Mommy. Just because you raised your kids to know, doesn't mean I want her to know.