So my husband just bought some Hennessey and Remy for our trip for Thanksgiving and he catches me…

You can drink and breastfeeding. If you're sober enough to drive you're sober enough to breast-feed. Barely any alcohol goes into your breastmilk. And if you drink right after you feed the baby you'll be completely out of your system by the time you nurse again

that's what I told him but he put it in the safe with his gun and I'm scared of guns

So go buy your own alcohol. Screw him

I would but no money @arivera64 we have s joint account that text us when we spend money but imma catch him slipping and poor me some

So the account is joint that means it belongs to you both. You should be able to spend what you want the same way he can. This is a relationship, not ownership. If you would like to enjoy a drink for the holidays and you're of legal age to do so....nobody has the right to deny you that. I'll be damned if my husband tells me what i can and can't drink etc

I hear ya @arivera64 and your completely right

I know! I'm not trying to put you down, rather lift you up. I see way too many women letting their SO run stuff in their life and don't realize even the smallest things are all about power. Show him you're an adult and you're your own person. You have the right to make choices.

@arivera64, your not putting me down I rather you be honest then kiss my ass you know

😉 enjoy your drink lol