why is this so haaard??

Cos it's worth it.

it's so hard to think that way at the moment...she doesn't sleep for more than 20 minutes total through the night 😕. please tell me this doesn't last!! @h04

how old is she @niems

only 2 weeks. I know I sound awful as she's so small but we are only getting about 2 hours a night sleep and it's getting so hard to believe it will ever change @tg123456789

it does change honestly. hetties 11 weeks today and been sleeping through last 3 weeks. before was nightmare. only thing i can recommend that worked was when putting her down for the night put her with a t shirt of yours or something so she can sense u there. so wrap her in the tshirt till she drops off then put her in moses basket with it xx @niems

At two weeks mine did a lot of cluster feeding and it felt like she was feeding all the time x it will get better but sleep deprivation is a killer x

@niems, you don't always need to feel like it's worth it!! No one can prepare you as to how hard it is! Don't feel bad about how you feel but the point is it honestly does get better! With my son I remember wanting to run away and thinking what have I done but it gets so much better just take it day by day

It will get better! I struggled both times the first few weeks. The lack of sleep & continous round the clock feeds lol. Eventually she'll start to go longer between feeds & settle better 😊👍

thanks @tg123456789 the t shirt thing is a really good idea...I will try that tonight!

thanks everyone, I am glad I came on here, you have all made me realise i'm not the only one that has felt like this! x