Is it only me or does It seem like the more kids you have that your so called friends just seem to…

Is it only me or does It seem like the more kids you have that your so called friends just seem to disappear .. I lost a lot of my friends mainly because as I became a mother and some of them did to they chose to leave there husband's and be whatever with there kids to find a new lover or make bad choice in there career progression.. ugh why is it so hard to jus find descent normal people these days.. 🤔😐