Maybe I'm weird but I wonder if there's a program where I can stand in when someone's in delivery.🤔…

Probably unlikely .. do you think watching births on tv/online might help?

I've watched a billion and it's obsessive! I'm in the phase that I'm deathly terrified and confused as to what I want. My friend wanted me to be with her but I was in the ER when she had her baby so now I'm like crap😫🤔 @chaylalove

You mean like what type of birth you want to have ?

@chaylalove, sorta. I want a water birth. But I hear hospitals yank you out and don't let you have one if you labor in the tub, I'm contemplating epidural but really don't want one. I want to know what to expect so I can make an accurate birthing plan ya know?:(

I wanted a water birth too but my hospital doesn't allow that 😩I don't want an epidural because I'm worried about the effects of it when it goes wrong.. I know people who have had back problems since. I watched a lot of birthing videos on handling the pain and stuff honestly it seems like the husband is the thing that comforts the woman through... for me I know that his support will be what helps me through the pain ! It's such an intimate moment

most hospitals dont do water births you need an midwife for that not an regular obgyn. most midwifes have there own private practices that does waterbirth its not an actual hosptial . @chaylalove @princessmama

if you have insurance you can call the back of the card and ask for a midwife and to placed somewhere that does waterbirths thats what my sister did .

I go to a midwife at a women's center and they have tubs for labor only...

I'm high risk so unfortunately a maternal fetal medical specialist is my "OB/midwife" and I'm forced to deliver in the hospital:( I'd so have a home birth if I was allowed! @jeanetta25

Yeah I wasn't comfortable with a birth at home situation @jeanetta25 so that's why I'm not doing it

@jeanetta25, @chaylalove and yes the hospital here has a tub for labor only as well. Maybe we can "accidentally" have a water birth ;) I'm going to raise hell if they try to move me when I'm in pain might smack them!

wow never knew that if your high risk you have to do it at a hospital . im high risk also and see my specialist twice a week and they asked before we figured out that i still cant deliver vag because my pelvic is too small still how it was when i had my son years ago they asked me what type of birthing plan did i want to go with idk if thats cause my doctor is deff going to be there since im high risk or what . but now since i have to have another c-section they just told me what hosptial i have to go to to deliver and i have no say so . @princessmama

not twice a week i mean every 2 weeks @princessmama

@jeanetta25, I'm high risk for Pre term labor and I lost my son to DIC and pre term labor so I'm a really high risk case. That's why I don't have a choice

awe thats sucks im sorry for your lost . @princessmama

@jeanetta25, I'm healing❤️ I'm just praying everything goes great with my princess

oh wait i thought you sounded familar we talked for quite awhile the other day were naming our baby girl the same name just different spelling @princessmama