Exactly wat ashley07 said if he Dosent sign the birth certificate u have full custody I wouldn't go for child support unless u want to share the child at some point in time so I would say just move on and done acknowledge him at all
When I was a single mom to my boys I gave the boys his last name and when it came down to going to court it was easier for him to say well they have my last name I want visitation and the judge asked no questions about where he's been wat he's been doing if he's gna be a good parent etc and gave supervised until they were big Enough to go to his place, that's where I messed up plus now he's not around for them and hasn't. Been and I hate when I have to answer question to my oldest cuz he gets sad, it's just a lot
No problem, I like how things turned out my boys are great and my husband is there for them, I feel bad for his ex cuz she had twins by him before he ended up in prison and now she sees that I wasn't lien when I told her he was no good piece of 💩 lol
Yes keep him off BC and give your baby your last name. Also if you travel across state lines or abroad there may be problems if baby's last name is different than yours
Ashley·
Мама двоих (младенец)
you have full custody as soon as she is born just leave the dad of the birth certificate
Jennifer·
Мама четверых детей
Exactly wat ashley07 said if he Dosent sign the birth certificate u have full custody I wouldn't go for child support unless u want to share the child at some point in time so I would say just move on and done acknowledge him at all
Xochilt 🌻·
В ожидании первенца
Thank you that's what I thought! If I did decide to give her the father's last name would that affect anything? @ashley07 @mommy4916
Ashley·
Мама двоих (младенец)
No you can give her any last night my SO isn't on our first daughters birth certificate but she has his last name
Jennifer·
Мама четверых детей
U can give any last name but if u don't want him to be involved I wouldn't give her his last name, or just use both
Xochilt 🌻·
В ожидании первенца
Thank you, I'm going to do some research @ashley07
Xochilt 🌻·
В ожидании первенца
Why wouldn't you want to? I'm a first time mom, and I'm all new to this :/ @mommy4916
Jennifer·
Мама четверых детей
When I was a single mom to my boys I gave the boys his last name and when it came down to going to court it was easier for him to say well they have my last name I want visitation and the judge asked no questions about where he's been wat he's been doing if he's gna be a good parent etc and gave supervised until they were big Enough to go to his place, that's where I messed up plus now he's not around for them and hasn't. Been and I hate when I have to answer question to my oldest cuz he gets sad, it's just a lot
Xochilt 🌻·
В ожидании первенца
Wow I'm sorry to hear that. Thank you for sharing that with me. I hope I do the right thing, thanks once again @mommy4916
Jennifer·
Мама четверых детей
No problem, I like how things turned out my boys are great and my husband is there for them, I feel bad for his ex cuz she had twins by him before he ended up in prison and now she sees that I wasn't lien when I told her he was no good piece of 💩 lol
Xochilt 🌻·
В ожидании первенца
I'm glad things turned out well for your family :))! Poor chick! But she was warned :o @mommy4916
Jennifer·
Мама четверых детей
Right well ahead of time lol
Toney·
Yes keep him off BC and give your baby your last name. Also if you travel across state lines or abroad there may be problems if baby's last name is different than yours