So sick of my SO being irresponsible. You now have a child you cannot be out getting drink every night and then the next day rolls around and you too hungover to help with the LO and I got errands to run. I'm not trying to be a bitch but grow up and man up and take care of your responsibilities or I will find someone else who definitely will. I'm trying to be patient but it's running out real fast. I'm not a little girl and I'm not gon tolerate lil boy shit. Yea you work all day and your schedule sucks but when you get off you should want to help with your daughter and give me a break not turn up w/ur boys every night when you get off those days are limited. Pick a lifestyle cause you can't live both with me. Sorry not sorry. Didn't mean to vent ladies but I'm sick of his bs. Am I wrong?
no you're not wrong. my first child is not my husband's and i left her father for those same reasons. being selfish and irresponsible, aint nobody got time for that. she's now 7 and he has made zero effort to be in her life. so he didn't change. she doesn't know him at all. my husband is her "daddy"...I'm just glad I got out before she was old enough to be hurt or confused by it. I left him when she was 3 months....he was already pretty much nonexistent. he thought having a baby was all cute and fun until she came and cried so he chose to act like a child