I need help ?? I want as many mommy to kinda answer what is going on because me and my so don't…
I need help ?? I want as many mommy to kinda answer what is going on because me and my so don't really know ? Here goes ok so when my so told his sisters that I was pregnant they were so happy and they wanted to meet me . Babe don't have a mom she passed while he was very young unfortunately. When they first meet me they were so heart warming welcomed me into there family with open arms . When they would come over they would pick me and my so up. But everything changed once I added them on Facebook ! mind you I'm only 20 these women are very older than me. the older sis almost 30 and the youngest is like 26 maybe . When things got hard because my so has been out of work since I got pregnant! He left the bills on me food on me plus I'm having a baby so I had to do everything alone for 6 months ! He wanted to smoke and play his game and not take my words seriously and I didn't know what I could do to get him on the ball again ! So I called his sisters to come and talk to him . After that it just seem like they didn't want to be bothered with me when they came over to talk to him about getting It together they mention to me that I'm a little immature too because I post a lot of stuff on Facebook and nobody cares , which made me laugh cause I thought I was a grown adult and I could do what I wanted 😒. After that it just went down hill they came over to to kidnap my so like out of the blue pop up at my house to take him from me from 7pm till 11:38 at night I was home by my self and pregnant . We have break in and everything and I was scared when they came over they didn't even come inside to speak or to let me know were they were going in how long for and he didn't even call . So I was upset when he got home when he did return they were acting all drunk playing at my door and I'm all like it's late ? And they just looked at me like wtf excuse u ? You don't have a reason to say anything like I'm supposed to just let them do what they want . So when they left I told him I knew they took you out to talk shit about me ? And he said yes ! That they don't like the stuff I post on Facebook and they wanted to know why ? And I'm like that doesn't make sense cause why ask u ? And then he told me that they don't like that I talk about him on fb ? And I don't even talk about that man even if I did ? I live with him I can say it to him ? I feel like they are trying to find a resson not to like me I'm a wrong ? His oldest sister has done a bunch of other stuff walked in my house with out me letting her in her brother isn't even on my lease come into my house and told me that something she was talking about wasn't funny which it was because we always laugh at my so Hairline which is like s grandpa like tried to snap at me in my own home in told me not to laugh because it wasn't funny ? Like I seriously feel like she's trying to start stuff when he asked her about it she told him she didn't wanna talk about ? And that he needed to talk to have this conversation with me because for some reason it didn't concern her ??? And saying she didn't want to talk to me she wants to talk to him but how are u gonna make him solve something he has no knowledge of ?
deleted-user·
How many children do you have?? It sounds like in my opinion he is immature and his sisters are as well. But also as a woman my number 1 rule is no one can know what's going on in my house hold if I don't tell them. To be honest Facebook doesn't care about what u have going on. Those same people you think are your friends are happy to see you are going through things. So DO NOT Put anything related to your relationship on FB. I think if he was already not such a good bf and not financially stable I wouldn't have tried to get pregnant with him. But it's your choice if you stay but keep his family out of you alls personal business please. Sadly whether he is right or wrong there loyalty will always lie with him. I hope this helps hun. Stay strong and stress free for your child.
Jay·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)
Everything is good with me and him he finally has a new job thank god he has always worked we just had to go threw the struggle and I never said anything about him on fb they just assume I was I don't really let people in like that but it's just like they want to take him to celebrate him getting a new job and not including me as if I wasn't doing everything to help him
deleted-user·
You have to @ people for them to know you responded @princessqueen
Jay·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@nursecandy, I forgot to @ u mama
Lashay Franklin·
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it think first you gotta create boundaries! If they can't respect you then they don't need to come over. I would sit them all down including your so and explain it so there isn't any confusion, also let them know since they dont like what you write on FB then you think it's safe to delete them, not out of disrespect but just to try to save whatever relationship you all have between each other since FB seems to be causing a problem. As for them coming and getting your so and not you that's hard but I would talk to your so about how disrespectful it is to not only leave you behind but also to talk about you with them especially since he come home to you after they done talking about you. This next part is the hood in me so excuse me but if he can't get it together I would tell him to go live with them let his sisters keep him warm at night! idk if it's cold where you are but you get the point! lol
Jay·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@ltsdiaries, yes I'm with u on everything u said !! They just don't want too respect me because that's there brother and they feel like because there family they can do whatever they want to and they don't have to respect my wishes they took him out didn't bring him back until almost 12 am in then when I said it was late they just looked me up in down mugged me in walked out after they came To my door playing and acting drunk like I'm pregnant why do I gotta deal with there shit
Jay·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@ltsdiaries, they normally always take me out with them but I notice it changed in the day it did I knew that they wanted to talk about me I also knew it was over some Facebook shit 🙄 and he told me they did then today she said it's cause I talked about gay people and his sister is gay and I'm like why is she upset it wasn't aimed at her ?? Then when she took him out she was like I don't like that she talks about u on Facebook in I'm like wtf I don't even talk about him on Facebook 🙄🙄 like I live with the guy why would I be scared to say it to him ?
Lashay Franklin·
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girl you don't! they doing petty stuff and they would know just how much I don't like it if I was you. kinda reminds me of my babies father sister called herself not liking me because he told her I kicked him my place.. I didn't even kick him out he had a temper tantrum and left because I didn't want him sleeping in my bed I told him to sleep in living room and girl he thought the living room was too good for him.
Jay·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@ltsdiaries, I know it's petty 🙄 but then they gonna be upset when I don't want them around my baby like why u don't like me so wtf lol ! I know they trying to create a reason not to . His older sister is gay and talks about how she has no one cause people aren't loyal I just feel like she's just jealous and wants us to break up because she's unhappy
Lashay Franklin·
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lol they being petty, so what if they get a little dose of they own medicine... you never know your so might be telling them stuff making you out to be this bad person
Jay·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (33 нед.)
@ltsdiaries, I asked him that in he was like no but I think they be like they don't like the way I talk to him but who knows