Sick of my sister asking to borrow money, told I have next to none myself and can't afford it (which…

If my sister done that to me id tell her to fix up and probably give her a smack. If she can't afford to pay you back she should say! But then again you don't really know whats she's spending her money on. Don't let her guilt trip you just think to yourself would she really do the same for you if you asked her when she was skint xx

@abbiegale, that's the problem, I know for a fact, I've learnt her money in the past and it's gone on fags or weed for her fella. I mean he can spend his own money on whatever he wants, but he's not spending mine on his crap. I've got to the point I've asked her if I could borrow some money before and been told no, it's ridiculous! @mother_of_humans exactly, I just can't afford it anymore, she should stop wasting her money on crap like she does! xx

I agree @mother_of_humans! My sister would get a big slap! I would rather her tell me she needed a packet of fags instead of her using her kids as a leeyway to get what she wants. It doesnt wash with me xx

@mother_of_humans, @abbiegale it has got to the point where no one in my family will lend her money because we know it goes on shit. She said it's for electric, and she won't be able to cook for the kids if she has none, but she's said to me before it was for the kids then told me she 'had' to buy fags for work. I've even had to ask my fella if I can can pinch some money before to lend it to her in the past but I'm sick of it now. she knows I'm on maternity pay at the minute and that it's crap money and I can't afford to be paying for her life too! xx