My daughter wont cuddle up with me on the couch because she is to busy messing with the dog and cat…

My daughter wont cuddle up with me on the couch because she is to busy messing with the dog and cat and all I hear is my dog whining and a bark here and there and my cat meowing the one that will snap is my cat but he will just smack her with is paw and she will will hit him and tell him no but these animals love her and let her get away with everything but if i did it they get mad at me.