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sara
sara
Мама четверых детей, беременна

Looks link I'll b goin to bed alone yet again tonight. I swear I love my bf but when u literally do…

Looks link I'll b goin to bed alone yet again tonight. I swear I love my bf but when u literally do nothing but sleep and then wanna stay up half the night and sleep all day the next day it gets really old. I understand u work 3rd shift but how bout spending some time with me and our kids instead of sleeping all day and night on ur day off

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cdudley623

candi

I've worked third shift, it's hard. All I did was sleep too, and you're supposed to maintain that schedule on days off too. I sympathize with both of you, it's def straining on a relationship

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lost041

sara

Мама четверых детей, беременна

I've done the 3rd shift thing myself, certainly was never allowed to forget I had kids at home that's for sure. I try not to fight or argue with him bout it but when he wakes up and I tell him to go to bed he just goes right back to sleep. It really wouldn't b so bad if he didn't sleep till like 3 or 4 every day and then b sleeping again before 8. It's putting a major strain on our relationship cause he never wants to do anything with us. I just hope it changes before the baby gets here @cdudley623

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lost041

sara

Мама четверых детей, беременна

If he don't switch shifts soon I may have to look into that for him. I know it's his job which is y I try not to fight and argue with him I just wish he would spend some kind of time with me and our children on his days off. I even mentioned one night just the 2 of us goin to dinner together and that was blown off. We got gift cards for the movie last Christmas and still haven't used them. @mommy2hannah

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ashley2371

Ashley Raio

Bummer. For almost ten years I worked 7pm to 7am. It was a tough shift and my sleep was always messed up. But I would pack my workdays together so I could have like four or five days off in a row and be normal. Regardless, I agree he should make time for your family and you❤️❤️. Maybe he can work more days in a row and have more off. On the day I switched my sleep cycle back I would wake up at like 1:30pm and stay awake till 8 or 9 that night and sleep for like 10 hours, then I was on a normal schedule again. Maybe this could help him?

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mmorrell15

Melanie Morrell

Мама двоих (5 лет, 6 лет)

I am guilty of that! I work 7pm-7am and before becoming pregnant I could just swing it and stay up when I didn't have to go back to work but this pregnancy has been kicking my butt and it takes me a full 24hr to recover from 1 shift lol. My shifts are also spaced out so I don't have to pay daycare because my 5 year old only goes to half day preschool.

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