Ladies, any of your partners not want to touch you at all during pregnancy? I'm 27+4 and for the…
Ladies, any of your partners not want to touch you at all during pregnancy?
I'm 27+4 and for the past 10 weeks he hasn't wanted to have sex, I'm lucky if I even get a kiss!! His excuse is that he doesn't want to hurt me, which I can understand, I'm just feeling so insecure about it, It's making me feel like I'm not good enough and that he might be going else where.. 😔
Gillian·
Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
I was having the same issue @sammmross but he was quick enough to ask me to do him "favours" I was the same worrying incase he was getting it elsewhere as before we were having sex like every day but the bigger I got the less he came near me! Im now 31+6 and the past week we've done it twice so god knows what's changed X
Samm Ross·
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@gillz_90, mines the exact same!!! I've never felt so shitty about myself! Hopefully it will change!!x
Gillian·
Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
@sammmross, it was really getting to me, I spoke to him and everything and he just kept saying it was incase he hurt me or the baby but still pissed me off so much x
Samm Ross·
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@gillz_90, it's pissed me off so much! I've just refused to do him any favours, and had some "me" time! If he ever found out I'll be shot!x
becky·
I bleed most times after sex for a few days so it puts my mister off in case he hurts baby but I no the feel girl's it mad it's like I am on a sex ban hahaha :)
vanessa·
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yep, I've been having the same thing. we used to have sex all the time and now it's very very rare. I know what you mean about feeling shitty because of it. Someone at his workplace told him he needs to be careful when we have sex incase he hurts me or our little girl so now it's like he's been put off it. He says he doesn't want to hurt us and also his sex drive is currently very low which coming from bloke who would have sex daily at one point it's a bit of a shock. :/ I try everything and nothing works, but I know for a fact, when I'm not here, he'll happily watch porn,which doesn't bother me but it'd be nice for him to show he's still attracted to me even though I feel like the size of a whale. XD xx
Jane·
everyone my hubby puts his hand on my belly wen baby moves he stops moving....so he has give up xx