Nothing bothers me more than someone saying "I know it's your baby but...." and then saying how they raised their kids or offering their opinion when I didn't ask for it. Then proceeding to say "I wasn't going to say anything because she's your daughter but I just couldn't help it". Mom shaming in its finest. Yes she's MY daughter. Mine and my husbands. We didn't ask for your opinion and we are going to raise our daughter our own way. If u wanted to raise another child then have ur own.