I'm going to share a bit of my story so you ladies understand how my last 7 months have been. My husband can not get me…
I'm going to share a bit of my story so you ladies understand how my last 7 months have been. My husband can not get me pregant (for reasons I'm not going to go into details about at the moment) I've know this since we first got together almost 7 years ago. We always knew we would have to use a donor, which we have been (a friend who we have a contract with). I didn't choose to disclose this earlier cuz I did not feel the need to. But it does make it hard to BD when u have two seprate ppl in two seprate residences with two seprate work schedules. So we usually try to BD at least every other day during my fertile window and the few days before the window. We try our best but something apparently isn't working and it may just be me. I was told by my OB that she is pretty sure I have endometriosis about 2 months before we planned to start trying to conceive. She wanted me to have surgery before we started to help my chances but wasn't sure if my chances were even lowered to begin with. I opted not to have it (days off work and going under etc). So now here I am going onto month 8 which is the month I was told if we didn't conceive by I would have to come back and look at options which I have a feeling she is going to want to do the surgery first....I feel like I am failing my husband and that if we had tried earlier I may have been able to conceive. I kno 7 months isn't a lot to a lot of you ladies on here who have gone years but it still hurts and I'm starting to feel at a loss of what to do....I'm not looking for pitty and I'm not giving up....just needed to share my story as I sit here and cry and feel sorry for myself for the night.
sara·
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prayers sent your way. I know it doesn't help you much but just have faith and Im sure god will bring your little blessing in his time. 😘💕
Dez·
@prayingforapumpkin, Thank you hunny I'm trying. was just a roguh night.
sara·
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@lillyb, always here if you need to talk
Dez·
@prayingforapumpkin, Thank you hunny ♡
sara·
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@lillyb, what are friends for😘
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I know you posted this a while ago but just wanted to give you some comfort my cousin has the same condition and was told she wouldn't be able to have kids. She's halfway through her pregnancy now with a healthy baby boy :) she didn't take any supplements or anything just happened so please don't be hard on yourself love. 7 months is a long time and I'm so proud you haven't given up, that takes a lot of strength to stay positive in these hard times. It took my parents 6 years of trying to have me and I just can't imagine how hard it is and both were healthy as can be! I hope everything works out asap and we can celebrate your pregnancy real soon ❤️ I'm so excited for you
Dez·
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@anmlopez, Thank you so much hunny ♡ I really needed to hear this 😙 it has been roguh and I havn't given up cuz my husband has been so supportive through it all. I don't want to give up cuz we both want me to carry a baby but we also just want to have our family and we kno there r a lot of children out there that need a home as well. I'm going to keep trying for now and hoepfully we will have the best Christmas gift ever ♡ Thank you so much hunny srsly from the bottom of my heart 💖
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@lillyb aw, anytime!! I'm always here for you ❤️ I sure hope you have the best Christmas ever, I'm crossing my fingers for you. I'm so happy you have a wonderful husband that gives you the support you need, that's just so important and not many men out there like that. We're all on your side 😘
Dez·
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@anmlopez, Thank you so much ♡ 😙