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Xochilt 🌻
Xochilt 🌻
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Should I ask my baby's father how he feels about becoming a father? If he feels excited, nervous or…

Should I ask my baby's father how he feels about becoming a father? If he feels excited, nervous or scared? Should I share my feels of happiness and excitement for our daughter with him? He has probably asked me about how she is doing twice during my entire pregnancy without me bringing the subject up. He has only gone to one ultrasound. We are not together nor do I feel he will ever want to be with me. We used to be together almost everyday, I would sleep over all the time, we used to do so much together but now we're like strangers. This guy whom I can barely hold a conversation with is the father of my daughter who I love so much already. I don't know what to do. I want to try for her. I don't want her to ever feel like because I didn't try hard enough he isn't around. When he ever does text me our conversations are really short and about superficial things. I'm so lost.

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1lovelymama

Lizzie

Мама сына (7 лет)

Hello, I think you should talk to him. Now, before the baby is here that way you can both have a clear understanding of what your relationship is going to be. You don't want to have drama with a newborn baby.

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moonslugg

Xochilt 🌻

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Thank you for the advice, I truly appreciate it. I really don't want drama with my baby is born. @1lovelymama

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laurenwalker

Lauren Walker

I agree with @1lovelymama as hard as the conversation will me it's something that needs to be talked about. Especially if your considering asking him to come to the hospital when she's born or even when it comes to child support and his views on coparenting. Better to get these things out of the way now so you can enjoy time with baby when she gets here!

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1lovelymama

Lizzie

Мама сына (7 лет)

No problem, it will be uncomfortable but you can do it, and whatever happens, you'll be fine.

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