I am really going through something's right now personal. I have been just keeping to myself trying…

I am really going through something's right now personal. I have been just keeping to myself trying to deal with them. My best friend has been stand offish lately and I am not the kind of person who really cares about having friends or not but I am always understanding about why ppl do the things they do. But she kinda only wants me to hang out when she has no one from her job to hang out with. But I've been so down lately so I told her maybe we can catch up later I don't want to be sad when she's out with her family trying to enjoy a family event. I just think it's a respectful thing to do as a friend. I haven't talked to anyone about what's going on but I told them when I am ready to talk about it I will and my other friend is completely understanding and hasn't been putting pressure on me to talk about what's going on, yet in the other hand this friend keeps going on and on trying to dig into what's going on. And I think it's so disrespectful bc idk if she's just being a care friend or just want to know my business. Then she said I am just trying to be here for you idk what you want me to do no need to be smart.

I said I wasn't I just want you to understand when I am ready to talk I will talk, just let me figure things out if you don't mind. I don't want to mess up your family outing. Like am I wrong she's taking everything I say personally when I'm not trying to be mean.