Can somebody please explain to me why I'm feeling this way at just 23 years old??
I've been with this guy for 4 years. we have our 1 year old son. recently he just decides to tell me he doesn't want to get married, that he doesn't see any point in it. also when ever we get intimate I just don't feel anything emotionally. we have no spark I guess. I love him I just don't know if I'm IN love with him. I got my IUD over 2 months ago. idk if that's messing with my hormones or what.
Any advice ladies?
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we live together I'm not sure how I'd get my own space. he doesn't even want marriage. I mean I've dreamed of that my whole life but I don't see it happening now.
I actually got that way with my SO after we had been together that long and we had a one year old. We actually separated for like a week and I cried the entire week. It made me realize how much I loved him. I felt hopeless and desperate for something new. When you start a family young you sometimes begin to feel trapped in the relationship. Maybe a little space will do you good. You need to sort out your feelings and you can't do that with him around constantly. I've now been with him for 6 years and married for a year and a half with another baby on the way. I can confidently say that I made the right choice by asking for some space to see what i needed. And it was him.
It could be, but it seems like he's feeling it too.