I'm really torn about visitors and privacy once my baby gets here. i know I'm going to want privacy,…
I'm really torn about visitors and privacy once my baby gets here. i know I'm going to want privacy, I would prefer for no one to get to the hospital until after ive had him. and I've mentioned that to my mother who told me, that wasn't an option. like she really has a say? it ticks me off that my family mostly, won't respect my wishes because"they're just way too excited" I may not be able to control when they get there but I know NO ONE will be allowed into the room until after he is born, everything is cleared that he is okay and my husband and I get our kangaroo time with him. so they can just sit there and wait then. i know I sound petty but I have a right to the amount of privacy and time alone with my baby that I want.
Brittney·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
I am having a scheduled csection and we have been very vocal about the time people can come. With the exception of my parents and my mother in law and our daughter (we told them 12) We've asked everyone to wait until after 3 that afternoon to visit. You're going to be exhausted and need time with your baby. It's not rude! If they ask, blame the hospital 😜
Ashley Kiniry·
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@mommaisrael2017, I'm just not going to allow them to stay all day, maybe have visitors for an hour or two but then I will have no quarrels about asking everyone to leave. I'll say I'm too tired which I'm sure that I will be. i just hope my mother doesn't think that she is an exception to this, because she is probably the most exhausting person to be around, it sounds weird but she requires so much attention!
alisha aquino·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)
i was the same way i was in labor for 4 days,and i still allowed no one in the room for longer then an hour and i only allowed that because it was,such a,high risk situation that i knew they were worried sick so i let the nurses know they can be in here for this long but then they have to go and it made things so much easier and less stressful its your time you're baby don't feel bad to take control they will get over it once they see the baby anyway!
Karen·
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I dont think u sound petty. I am thinking about not telln anyone anything until after he is born. I want to be alone with my husband and my bf maybe lol. And if u show up over my house unannounced, ur feelings will be hurt cuz u will be standing outside knocking.