I don't know what to do.. I've been ill, completely put off sex and a complete hormone disaster. And…

@bethrolls, I'm sorry but ur husband sounds like a dush bag. Ur pregnant for goodness sake,this is the time where you need his support the most not threats of leaving.

I'm coming to the end of mine,sex is pretty non existent and my hormones are all over the place but I've had nothing but support from my other half.

If he keeps saying that then just let him go,he's clearly just thinking about himself n not about the fact that ur carrying his child.

That's awful! It's not your fault that you're ill! It sounds like all he cares about is sex 😒

He needs to realize that your pregnant and the last thing that's on ur mind is sex my sex life has been non existent during this pregnancy maybe doing it now and again but nothing like we did before and as for the mood swings and hormones it's just part of the package I'm afraid!! He needs to just go into another room and wait till you have calmed down then come back and hug you when ur having a hormonal day rather than threatening to leave!! Your given him a child out of this and yes it's a hard 9 months but it's all worth it in the end and if he can't see that than he's an idiot!! @bethrolls x

Aww hun that's horrible I totally agree with @gillz_90 it's a hard 9 month and the last thing any one wants to hear is I will leave you. What dose he expect when baby is here because baby will take all your time and energy for the first few weeks maybe months you will need his support as a partner and a father. Maybe try a sit down talk or ask him to read up about how difficult it can be being pregnant along with everything else that can go through your mind at this time. sending hugs hun xx

I just don't realise when I'm being horrible to him. he works all day comes home and all I remember is his reaction to whatever mean I've said to him :/ isn't there anyway I can control my hormones?

@bethrolls Awe hun.....Until your give birth..there's no way of controlling them...he needs to understand that literally every pregnant women is like this to some degree....My OH pissed me off so much....I just would ignore him most times....its not like he did anything especially annoying etc....I just felt a strong annoyance to him and couldn't control it.....I think your husband is just using anything to leave you....he is being a dick....if I was you...I would've told him to fuck off lol... We are pregnant....hormonal...tired....what does he expect? We don't always want to have sex 😑😑😑 That's the only time I have turned my OH down for it...when I was pregnant...He was cool with it! I think you should just talk to him.... we are pregnant/ex pregnant women can back you up on this one...that being a hormonal bitch is very normal..... he just needs to ignore it...xxx

He needs to understand that u not doing this on purpose. Ur bloody pregnant! It makes me so mad when men just assume carrying a baby is like a walk in the park. U can't control ur hormones it's all part of bring pregnant n he just needs to accept that.

if he can't handle the no sex now, wait until you have had the baby. there will be no time for sex and you won't wanna do it anyway as your 'you' time will be spent sleeping!

as @sophie94x says. we have to do it 4am each night when she is asleep!

Yep and tbh I'm too tired, with a reflux and colic baby I would rather sleep than have sex 😂 she only has half hour naps in the day so it would have to be a quickie 😂 xx @tg123456789

hetties just over the colic but was awful. an absolute nightmare. i thiught wud never end! but like u im too tierd at min. if he dunt wake up at 4am then i dont instigate it 😂😂 @sophie94x xx

whattttt. ...wow that's horrible. And he knows you're pregnant ! sounds like a right Wanker. He should be by you side. selfish turd