I've told all my friends for weeks that I don't want a baby shower as no one gets along, I've hardly got any time left and I'm so poorly I struggle to even get out of bed without throwing up or being in pain. And yet one of my friends is still secretly trying to arrange a massive party before my due date, I've tried being nice about it and telling her I don't feel up for it but she's persisting to set something up secretly, I know it sounds so selfish but being so poorly and being so close to my due date the last thing I want is to be dragged out and be made a deal of😩 any suggestions on how to make her realise?