I've told all my friends for weeks that I don't want a baby shower as no one gets along, I've hardly got any time left and I'm so poorly I struggle to even get out of bed without throwing up or being in pain. And yet one of my friends is still secretly trying to arrange a massive party before my due date, I've tried being nice about it and telling her I don't feel up for it but she's persisting to set something up secretly, I know it sounds so selfish but being so poorly and being so close to my due date the last thing I want is to be dragged out and be made a deal of😩 any suggestions on how to make her realise?
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@sommerwills123, hmmm seems like she's making this more for herself than you 😐. I would stick my ground n just tell her straight (again).
@missy84, I've already said I'll happily have a party once he's here, just being so poorly I can't do much right now! But she's making it at her house, where half of my friends can't come because they don't get along with her, and she's trying to invite people I don't even like myself, and not my family. If I was to do it this wouldn't be the time or how I'd go about it😂
@sommerwills123, maybe suggest having a get-together after baby arrives? I had my shower at 34 weeks for this exact reason,although saying that I've got a wedding next Sat where I'll be 38wks 🙈
@missy84, yeah a few of my friends have kicked off at me for not wanting one but it's too late and I'm poorly, if they had to go through having HG and growing a human I'm sure they'd understand😂