my mother in law family is soo outdated..they keep on working in home to get delivery normally…
my mother in law family is soo outdated..they keep on working in home to get delivery normally freely from the day I know that Im pregnant..
I'm becoming soo week day by day reducing weight..now I'm in 5th month..they keep on making me busy all day by walking..my feet is getting lots of pain so that I can't even walk freely.. I can't convince them to give me rest for a while..they believing hard work will only way to normal delivery..
if it is the only way to make my baby healthy..I will still adjust with these people n the pain with lots of patience..
in my recent ultrasound scan my doctor said that my baby's legs r not growing according to the week..
they recommend me for TIFFA scan after 15days..I was worried about my baby..pls help me..how to react with this situation I'm newly married 6mnths only..
Another one is everyone in this house is soo serious and rude to everyone all the time..no piece of mind found here..I don't remember when was the last time I smiled..is this kind of being will take any effect on my baby in future pls tell me thanks a lot in advance
doctanu·
hi madhu! I think you should ask ur hubby nd mom in law to visit ur gyne along with you,and there u should ask ur gyne about importance of taking rest or leading active life.I know you are facing a very difficult situation but u have to be strong and act smart with ur in laws else u myt have to suffer always
madhu·
that too love marriage I can't share anything with my family..
as u said I tried that also I told dctr first to give me some rest..because baby is not growing properly..
they start arguing that without following shubh muhurtam and nakshatras I went to my mom home thats the reason your baby is not growing it's all my fault
doctanu·
is your hubby supportive?
madhu·
he is neutral btwn his mom n me..
somehow changed in these days
madhu·
thank u for let me chat with I can't able to talk with anyone about this..
I lost frnds alsoo
madhu·
feeling lonely in this pregnancy journey
doctanu·
I understand ur situation.I had also gone through tough sitUations.I believe u r a strong lady.just relax yourself,I think you should try meditation first,and when your mind would relax you might find solution easily
doctanu·
if nobody helps you have to help yourself.dip your feet in warm water nd thn massage your feet with coconut oil and wear socks for sometime.
doctanu·
don't think much about ur in laws,they will never change.its not a movie or serial where a bahu can change her in laws with love thts bullshit.stop bothering yourself for them,just focus on your baby and your own well being
madhu·
thank u soo much what about u..n whr r u from
doctanu·
I am dentist by profession.from punjab
doctanu·
tell me wt do u want a baby boy or baby girl
madhu·
I like anyone..whoever it is that's my baby..
but in these days I want baby boy to be strong in all aspects..to overcome soomany selfish people
doctanu·
I want a baby girl.m so obsessed with baby girls and moreover I dont kno how to bring up boys,my sis has 2 daughters
Divs Mon·
Hi ladies,am curious to know if u have delivered ur babies healthy and safe also girl or boy?