I decided not to breastfeed for many reasons so I am bottle feeding.( if you're going to mom shame…

I stopped breastfeeding when my baby was 4 weeks.. My milk was already here but it stopped within 2 weeks!! Don't let nobody momshame you my daughter is nearly 4 months and we're both happy! Breastfeeding was just not for me

I think it may just dry up. But I'm not sure. I breastfed for a couple months but when I didn't they were super full and leaked so I can't say much. But when I stopped it dried up pretty quick. Do they hurt @geekymomma13

@leahsmommi, no, they don't hurt or anything just a little fuller. they aren't more tender or anything. I keep checking for any sign of colostrum but there is nothing.

@iamliyaah, she is fed and happy that's all that matters. I contemplated both and made my decision, I don't regret it either.

Might not come of at all because you aren't stimulating them.. Or it could..mine took five days to come in and i was pumping and trying to latch my son on..took forever.. I've heard of many moms who had there milk come in after a miscarriage and no stim.. Just wait it out and try not to stimulate your nipples at all of you don't want milk

@geekymomma13, hmm I would check w dr and ask how to make it dry up. I know people on here get judgmental but who cares. You shouldn't have to post and have your guard up. Who cares what anyone thinks. Lol besides it's your baby. you can formula feed and be a kick ass mommy. Just cuz your boobs aren't hanging out for the world to see doesn't mean your not.

@corinasolorio, Im hoping if I just leave them be maybe I'll just leak a little but not have like full on engorgement and leaking. @leahsmommi I'm just wondering if it'll come in at all, I'm hoping it doesn't but if so I'm def going to ask my Dr on how to dry it up. and if ppl want to judge they can go right ahead but when it comes down to it I know what's best for me and my daughter breasts hanging out or not.

If they do just leave them alone.. Don't take hot warm showers and wear tight bras with an underwire.. I heard cabbage in the bra helps too

@corinasolorio, thanks for the tips, i am worried if it does come in it'll be miserable for awhile from engorgement. just hoping and praying it doesn't!

@geekymomma13, lol I like that. And exactly.